Afterlife Phil G shares his mailbag to help Lisa from Britain to connect with her father in the Afterlife: “I lost my father, I sense him near, but my thoughts are so mixed up I can’t actually know if it’s his thoughts or mine…”
“In answer, can I say that sensing a connection with the afterlife doesn’t always mean you can easily understand or believe the connection is real, especially if it’s someone very close to you – you need to find a way to verify things are happening, and the ‘messages’ are not just in your mind.”
I had the same problem and it’s why I developed my simple technique. (Accidentally, as visitors to my website on life after death). Firstly, if you sense him around, then he’s with you. I know some would say that’s being nave, but it’s true and you can prove it yourself.
I assume you’re past the stage of believing in being able to contact the afterlife so I’ll go to knowing the difference between your own words and thoughts, and those of someone who’s ‘talking’ to you from ‘the other side’. The first step, even if you’re aware of a connection, is to relax. Like a very deep meditation.
The tools I make available include: the YouTube video “CoffeeTime”, The Poem “Don’t Grieve” (page 3 on the website), the “ABC of connecting” (on Page 7 of the website), and then of course the Book or Audio guides page. I suggest these because they all contain what I believe is the important steps to getting clarification.
In order to get clear detail or feeling is to make a difference between the thoughts in your head, and the thoughts being PLACED in your head. One key is to not ask for or expect specific thoughts, or ‘signs’, but to accept whatever comes through (or not). Maybe you won’t get what you’re expecting, but slowly, you will clearly get things. And it gets easier the more you do this.
What you need to do next is separate your thoughts from those you are receiving those in the Afterlife. I find the starting point is to be very relaxed, but then to try NOT to get any specific thoughts, and accept whatever comes through. You may not get what you want right now, but you will start to sense things, often that seem odd or insignificant, but it will become clearer the more you try.
Lastly, you want to know the experience is real, and not your own thoughts, and I teach to ask for something you don’t know, or something you’re forgotten. Something you don’t know can be anything. In my wife’s case, the final ‘proof’ that made her realise I wasn’t making up that her father was ‘coming through’ was when I asked if she had knocked a round cylinder containing a bunch of pens off her desk today? Something I couldn’t know, which was true! You will have those kind of experiences.
In my book ‘Soul Matters – you can talk with those you miss’ I talk about my Nanna coming through one evening. (She passed away when I was about 7) She showed me a scone on a plate. I had no idea what this meant, until I heard her voice say “don’t you remember the scones?” – then I remembered. I had asked my mum over and over to make scones like my Nanna (The British make scones much better than Aussies do!) I had completely forgotten that.
So ask those questions, and trust the answer, even if whatever you get does not make sense ” over the next few hours or days it will, and it will verify your connection. In your case, I understand you already ‘feel’ him near, and don’t really need to know how to connect with him, but I’ve shared this because I feel if you do these small simple steps, you’ll go from knowing he’s around to verify the messages and confirm you got the messages right.
I hope this works for you. Tell me how you get on in a few months by using the feedback link on the website (philg.net.au). I’m sure you’ll get the clarity and proof you desire.
Cheers, Phil G
